If you have been hurt or wronged or even perceive that you were let it go. Never use the scriptures to attack those who you feel have wronged you. The scriptures are redemptive and reconciling. Yes they condemn sin and sinners but with the goal to bring sinners to God. If you have been hurt and you carry it as a badge of righteousness you make yourself a fool. Hurts and un-forgiveness will hurt you and your family more than it will hurt the one who did it to you. Forgiveness is not for the benefit of the perpetrator but for the victim. Forgiveness releases those who have wronged you to be judged by God. As long as you judge them God cannot deal with their issues. Quit being blind by the planks of un-forgiveness and pull it out of your hearts eye! Let God make it a speck that only He sees and He is concerned about. Don’t perpetrate on your future as a perpetrator did on your past! Let it go, leave it there, move on and live large!